How a person looks doesn’t really matter. Does she enjoy doing some of the same things I do…. I really don’t think Mickey is wrong. There’s an awful lot of truth to what he is saying.
I Had to say something when I read your comment. So much of your story and perspective mirrored my own journey and I wanted to say thank you for sharing. As a man, I’d say you’re not alone in your experience, fears, and desires. You say that you don’t want a me-first factory, but truthfully, all you are concerned with is getting your needs met in one way or another. Just because you are willing to barter for it doesn’t change the fact that your number one agenda is to get your own needs met. I’ve only just found this site and while I’m not ready to start dating just yet, it certainly gives me hope.
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I was this woman before my marriage and as I go through divorce now, I will go back to this woman. Because I ultimately feel like I wasted the last 6 years of my life when I was happy prior just focusing on my dreams. I will have one difference now as I will have two beautiful daughters to raise. But, it is going to be me and them against the world going forward. Well I’m a 35 year old freshly divorced woman and I ain’t mad at no body. I also don’t speak for other people because the point is to relate not ruminate .
I am far from perfect and I am sure there’s a lot of quirks about me too but wouldn’t mind finding a partner someday! I still believe that there’s that someone out there that fits just right for a person. I have just joined the 40 club this year and reading this for warning signs as well as how to attract 40 something yr old man. I have just turned 40 so the bitterness is not quite that intense. I don’t have kids, never married nor have I experienced the broken heart that most have so my luggage is quit light but not perfect. I still have a lot of life in me so I am looking for a man either in his very late 30’s or 40’s who still has a zest for life.
Remember that it’s about the two of you as individuals, not your age difference.
With most women being real gold diggers these days which is the real excellent reason why so many of us single good men over the age of 40 and under can’t really meet a good single woman at all nowadays. And with so many very high maintenance , selfish, spoiled, greedy, and very money hungry women now, which many of these women will never be able to Accept a man for who he really is anymore. I am pretty sure I have dated all of those types of women you listed. Still, women are the most amazing beings on the planet – all of them!
And women should find it OK to be in a relationship with a guy who is 10 years older than them. I am 41, recovering from a serious car accident that has swallowed up the last 2 years of my life and am not yet able to date again. www.datingranking.org But even before that I was single for years. Although in the best physical shape of my life, I had no romantic encounters since my most significant relationship ended at 34. Just a handful of dates and some mediocre casual sex.
I didn’t even get a piece of the company. It was such a whirlwind and so painful that I think I probably didn’t fight like I should have. I just wanted to get through it so I could rebuild my life and provide for our son. I’ve got my own tales, as everyone does. I very much hope it doesn’t come across rude of me. I have on my online profile that when we meet, I’ll pay for the meal.
My brain sat down one day, had a nap for 2weeks… During that time I smiled like a weirdo AT him. He reciprocated… He seems to have moments of shyness’ in front of his team where he ignores my presence. But later at the lunch area, he’ll sit with me and chat away. He said afew times he’d hate to leave, ending in a pun. I feel strongly that chasing after him is the wrong choice.
Doing interesting things on the weekend. Then he can’t string you on forever. This has to get out of the office or nowhere. Perhaps they weren’t really sure you liked them and weren’t confident enough to ask you out. You could possibly ask them, you know, be an equal partner.
I’m honest and loyal but obviously not perfect. Frankly, as I improve at seeing signs of the above list these days, I don’t stick around as long as I used to. I’ve tried to crack through a few tough shells in some of my relationships – I see a few commenters here who show signs of having one. In the end, these women seem confused about what they actually want.
Love is kind, love always protects, hopes, trusts, perseverance. I just tried to fix a sexpot, bitter, princess. Could not agree more…this holds true for men too.